As I am contemplating my day and some of the conversation that took place, in my head and with those I love. I suddenly realize my inquiry of the day was answered in a conversation that happened by and by. I was wishing my sister-in-law a happy birthday and we were enjoying the idea of all that lies ahead and what we have to look forward to in each new phase. She mentioned how people question certain destinations she has in mind and I thought, "well does it really matter, as long as we have a destination there will be a journey, and that is the interesting fun part."
Ok so my inquiry of the day was: "How do I manage my expectations when there is such specific goals and plans?" I am always on a mission to manage it(my expectations) to the point where I would love to live with out expectations, finding for me it only creates debilitating tension. When I can enjoy and learn and be without expectation the freedom it harnesses makes me fly and take that one extra step. Now I realize this is not so for everyone, there are many ways to look at this and what motivates each of us. I am not afraid of feeling disappointment or maybe I am and I just don't have the guts to admit it, yet I am more reluctant about being frozen in place, feeling as if I am so stuck on it looking as expected, or someone else acting as expected that I cannot see it any other way and then the tension blocks my view.
Currently I stand in the midst of the most specific plans and ideas I've ever had, and I would love to see them come to fruition. I also realize that I have only so much control and things might not go as expected, agh.... Then after this short yet sweet moment between me and my sister, I again realized it doesn't matter. Because here I am on the journey, this very specific plan has set in motion. I am enjoying and learning and creating everyday, the mission is to stay present. Personally the unknown is exhilarating to me, it invigorates my soul. I feel my shoulders relax after a tense morning where it felt like things just wasn't going according to plan, and I again smiled and decided to enjoy the ride.
This is some roller coaster.